that time in life

it comes a time in life where you have to step back and see things clearly ,you have to re-evaluate your life and how you spent your time and most importantly how you spent your time ,realise what really makes you happy and what really makes you sad,you have to find what is best for you and what is best for the rest  but not for you . In the end you ll see that you have to let go of something ,you ll have to let go of some dreams because they are not really lifelong dreams they are just thoughts ,lifelong dreams will never stop being the fundamentals of your life ,the ground where minor dreams will grow but like flowers and trees every now and then you have to cut  the  dead flowers and trees so new ones will emerge .you ll see that minor things do really make you happy and that things you do day after day after day just squeeze the energy out of you ,you ll have to find those small things ,those small memories, those small moments and cherish them as long as they last  cause for they might not last long but their power will stay in you for long.Finally you ll have to let go off people,this is the hardest part of them all cause till know you might had to let go ,things ,thoughts,ideas and dreams but letting go of a person takes true will and power, you ll have to let go of people that when you are around them you feel your energy drained by them for no reason ,you ll have to let go though people you love . So often we confuse letting go with forgetting ,you wont forget them even if you really wanted to you can't cause they will always be in your heart no matter how many years pass they will be there .You need to do so though cause by letting them go you ll let them free and you let your heart free as well to love again and love more people ,  even if they are dead ,their memories will forever remain but you can't allow  those memories to haunt your dreams ,you true love ? if you have tried and you reached a point where there is nothing else you can do ,then it's time to let go ,you know you ll still love her/him but for your soul's sake you have to let go,it doesn't mean you have to move one  to another girl/guy but it means that their ab sense wont matter anymore .