focus on the good side

Lots of people will write about love and write about heart breaks and pain and sorrow and all those moments they cried,  I ve rarely seen anyone writes about all the good moments in that love.
If we keep focusing on all the bad moments we are slowly becoming heartless creatures, when we only see the sad feelings, love showed us, but we ignore all those good feelings then we as creatures, we belittle our selves and we close doors to people who can actually love us again, we become distant and cold.When we focus though on the good things about love we allow our self to heal faster and become a person who can actually love and be loved trully in the future ,i know is not easy and I know is not painfree ,we all have to go through pain to do this and we ll have to find the power the survive that battle .A battle that will leave scars in the soul and they will be carried along with you till the day you die .There will be always be a war going on between us ,sometimes we ll win and sometimes we ll lose but what matters the most is when we do lose ,we must recollect our pieces and put them back together and be prepare for the next battel ,for when we ll be at our most valnuarable everything will collapse on top of us and if we are not strong enough they will bury us deep and we might not never emerge fully back to life after that . will collapse on top of us and if we are not strong enough they will bury us deep and we might not never emerge fully back to life after that .